Oh the Irony!!

I swear I've been meaning to write this a while ago but I've never had time to. I'm  literally sitting in the storage room of my job, talk about getting it in where it fit in. I couldn't let another day go by without spilling out what has been on my heart. This isn't something that has been tearing me down or anything it's something that I has come full circle to me. Recognition of growth and how life can be super ironic. The true meaning of everything that glitters isn't gold.....the grass truly isn't greener on the other side. 

We all know going through life we constantly deal with certain situations that may cause us to produce insecurities about ourselves. As females we began to compare ourselves to the next one. Oh she's this and that....so on and so forth. But as you began to mature and become comfortable with the skin you're in ironically those same females you once compared yourself to become the chicks you just look and and shake your head.

You questioned life and wondered why you didn't have a surplus of men to date, men didn't flock towards you as much as them, and felt as if you couldn't get the attention of anyone but what you didn't realize is that you have dodged unnecessary heart ache and baggage. Let's be honest half of these chicks walking around with endless "juice" are heartbroken and hurt, looking for love in all of the wrong places. They have given themselves to men who promise to love them and give them everything that they longed for but leave them empty wth broken promises. Now this may not be the case for all but it's a little over majority.  

 

Oh the irony!! Ironically those same girls who you compared yourself to are now below the level you have matured to. It takes a certain level of maturity to be okay with not having this thing called the "juice". I mean I would much rather wait patiently for one person than entertain endless randoms. These "bad jawns" and "five star chicks" are lowkey losing miserably, entertaining this cycle of insanity messing around with the same type of dudes expecting a different outcome. Baby girl you're worth so much more and others won't see it until you realize that yourself; and for the chicks who are feeling less than hunny you are beautiful and don't let anyone in this world tell you different. That respect that you have for yourself will be respected one day. Never lower your standards to appease a man it'll never be worth it. Wait on hunny  come take a seat next to me because our Boaz is coming ;-) 

With Love <3 

CarrieSierra